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Ok, aspies, what are some of your sexual turn ons? It is said that Aspies have weird turn ons and from those I have observed, I have to agree. so, what turns you on?
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Re: What are your sexual turn ons?
Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:03 PMI'm guessing that's one area where I'm actually reasonably typical -- or atypical for an aspie. -
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Re: What are your sexual turn ons?
Tue, May 20, 2008 - 5:32 PMWell... I'm bisexual, so ... nevermind my saying I'm "typical" ... I'm attracted to friendly people who're good conversationalists mostly... physically I prefer men and women who are both somewhat androgynous - not particularly muscular and I prefer no makeup... So ... I guess in retrospect, yes, my turn-ons are different. Actually makeup is a bit of a turn off for me. Though I'm not sure I would call a lack of makeup a "turn on".
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Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:08 PMwhat constitutes weird?
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Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:14 PMWell, weird to me is something that is not found in the vast majority of the population. For example, voyeurism or watching your partner have sex with another is not what most people would do. That may be classed as weird. Please do not assume that "weird" is in any way abnormal. I simply use the word to denote something that only a small minority of people take a part in. -
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Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:16 PMI will start with what turns me on. I get very turned on by role playing (have lots of wigs and stuff) during sex. Now that is not exactly a very typical fetish. -
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Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:37 PMsee and I thought that was the most typical fetish because it encompassed so many other ones. For the amount of time I do talking about sex and sexuality you'd think this question would be easier for me. -
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Mon, May 19, 2008 - 10:37 PMsinging. well.
Dance.
she plays a musical instrument?
interdisciplinary (multiple college majors or, autididactic?)
thoughtful, deep mind
intellectual
open heart chakra
shen
bright, clean auras
halo activity
empathy
telepathy
kundalini above chakra 2
exotic dreaming open collaboration
building
polyamoury
voyeurism
exhibitionism
gentle, soft, relaxed, playful minor explorations of
bondage, bdsm
ponyplay
in that order, generally going on spectrum from my prometheus side towards my pan side
ie; what turns >ME< on what side of "me" are you asking?
My angelic side, which i am more in tune with than almost any NT?
or my devilish side, which i am more in tune with than almost any NT?
Or my creative side? Which i am more in tune with than almost any NT?
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Re: What are your sexual turn ons?
Tue, May 20, 2008 - 12:17 AMI am not like this now, but it used to be the sound of certain words.
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Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:35 PMhmm well I think that weird actually does mean abnormal and I'm totally cool with that. I am definitely weird and totally at peace with that, infact I enjoy it really. I wasn't taking offense. it's more that I know that I've done things that objectively I can assume that most people in the world and the united states have not done...with my group of friends I'm rather the least kinky one. So first you take that I am bad at telling what about me is odd, and then you add to it that I am surrounded by wonderful Bay area livin, burning man attending, BDSM practicing, Poly lovin, gender bending people...and I am just completely lost as to what I might be into that might be different from the norm. I have no concept of the norm I think.
Plus I'm moody...what turns me on when I'm in one mood is not the same thing that turns me on in another mood. This is a good question for me though. I think my turn ons tend to be either sensation, or energy based. Not visual or idea based. I *think* that's different then most people. and more than any*thing* I am turned on by the person and the chemistry with them. Just being in the room with one person makes me hotter than if anyone else did some of my favorite sexual things.
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Sun, August 17, 2008 - 10:11 PM
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§t®ngV◊i©e Re: What are your sexual turn ons? Fri, May 16, 2008 - 2:08 PM
what constitutes weird?
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HA HA LOL,, if I were wyrd compared to others, HOW would I know. EVerybody else are such freaks.
LOL,
Gotta love your reply :D
R.
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Mon, August 18, 2008 - 9:39 AMI'm extremely bad at knowing what is normal much less weird...it doesn't help that I have a core belief that everyone is weird and I forget that lots of people try to stop being wierd or hide it so then I'm all confused by their behavior.
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Tue, May 20, 2008 - 10:40 AMLol!
Ok, well, lessee.
I've been a regular participant both online and in person in the San Francisco based BDSM community for close to 20 years. I play regularly. I teach. I've traveled and played in a number of countries. And a full dissertation on what I do there would be beyond the scope of a simple tribe post.
I'm also into sex magick and tantra and am about to become certified to teach Margot Anand's Skydancing tantra. Essentially, for me, this is self development through sex and interpersonal relationships. I study several forms of magick, including tantra, chaos, shamanism, and I moderate several magick related forums. I'm also intrigued and fascinated by the use of entheogens, ingested sacraments toward the pursuits of many of these things.
I'm also a formerly certified hypnotherapist, and certified practitioner of NLP, certified master practitioner of NLP, and a certified health practitioner of NLP, all taken primarily to support my above interests.
I'm practicing polyamory. I take classes and workshops. I attend both sex and bdsm parties and rituals including the occasional swingers party.
I can, quite literally, install and remove fetishes at will. My primary turn ons are varied, but the ones that are most interesting to talk about are frontiers. In BDSM, it's often called edge play, but amounts to exploration of self, other, community, and the world. For me, most of these things include, but transcend sex.
I'm sure I must be forgetting some important bits this morning, but that's a start, anyway. -
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Tue, May 20, 2008 - 5:53 PMmatching pheromones. -
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Sat, June 28, 2008 - 4:25 PMdeffinately pheromones
I love the smell of the right man
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Sat, June 28, 2008 - 4:23 PMMore then anything, enthusiasm and genius
creative obsessiveness
shyness
...huge turn ons
physically;
Guarded eyes
the clavicle of the neck
long hair and beards... -
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Tue, August 19, 2008 - 3:14 PMI like women who do not shave. It is a physical turn-on, but moreover it is an outward manifestation of non-conformity...sorta like letting your freak flag fly. -
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Tue, August 19, 2008 - 5:02 PMyeah baby. mine's been flying high for years. in fact, I just educated an entire community of phone sex workers about how I think forced societal body hair removal is akin to other misogynistic mutilation practices like foot binding and female circumcision; a mild cousin, at least... -
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Sun, September 14, 2008 - 1:39 AM...but men shave too...
and it is such a loss.
facial hair is a secondary sexual characteristic and is so sexy
...as is long hair on men
I like my body hair...but I like other peoples too!
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Tue, July 8, 2008 - 7:59 PMhands
physically taxing movements
stretching
pain
crack of a whip
gun shots
knives
certain flavors
male or female energy
elements as they prush against me mentally
hunting/being hunted
dance
drinking
I'm sure there are more things that set me off, but since I generally to aroused to tell what set me off I'll stop there. -
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Sun, August 24, 2008 - 8:58 AMI have been gettin a little disturbed by my thoughts lately and what turnes me on.
I saw this show, this guy was into his job, the gal was interested in him but there was
no 'lfash' then she attended a function, like a class reunion or such with him as a co-attendee, not together that is;
She was all dolled up, hair to the "9"s, (OH, just remembered the show, it was Jake 2.0)
anywho, he was wowed by her looks.
then after watching the show about a week later I saw this gal that was in baggy pants,
looked like she had thrown her onsombo togetehr from "Buffalo Exchange"
and her hair was blonde, thick and choppy cropped. All I could think after seeing her
at a distance is how sexy she was.
I guess either the "make overs" that the salons are doing are too thick on the makeup
and I feel that too many woman look more like manikans or street hors, or that
i am not liking moderation of make.up for some reason.
HMMM, what else, conversation is good if the conversation is good.
smells, some scents, I don['t know, I think mostly just women who are quirky and
break the mold, the standard formatt, who stand out in a understated way (which makes
sense, Noooat (doing my best Borat).
Randy
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Sun, August 24, 2008 - 1:08 PMI tend to like "girl next door" and "tomboy" a hell of a lot more than major makeup, big hair, or high heels. Most of the traditional "to the nine's" gear looks uncomfortable and ungraceful to me most of the time. Or just plain impractical.
I was reminded recently, I can actually get pretty turned on just by riding public transit for a while and watching the people in their typical casual clothes. -
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Sun, August 24, 2008 - 5:20 PMThere used to be this men's.wear store that ran commercials with really hunky, sweaty, partially shaven guys that were totally hot and then when the camera cut to the same guy all cleaned up I'm wondering where the cute guy went.Men in suits are boring. Men in tuxedos, OTOH, are hot.
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Re: What are your sexual turn ons?
Thu, August 28, 2008 - 10:34 PMMy aspie cyber stalker used to send me personal messages about eating garlic and farting under the bedsheets.
This was her sexual fantasy for me.
Is this typical? Do aspies enjoy farting as part of the sexual experience?
